“It doesn’t matter what others think of you.
What matters is only what you think of yourself”
The above is easier said than done. We’ve been brought up in a world and in a way that consciously or unconsciously we end caring about how we appear to someone else. To someone you love or someone you want to impress, to someone you want to prove your true worth to, so on and so forth.
How it really works is, if every act of yours is done in a way to make yourself happy, it’ll be done perfectly. Perfect, not to someone else maybe, but to your own self. And every time you do it again, it will be to surpass your own best created record.
And That’s how you become your own hero. And unless that happens, you cannot be an idol for someone else.
Follow your own way and let others follow you as and when they want to, if at all they want!